Anyone reading this extensive glossary of commonly used terms will be able to understand the escort terminology used on the majority of “coded” escort websites regarding services being offered by independent escorts as well as escort agencies. You will be able to decipher exactly what types of erotic acts the escorts will perform for you as well as other types of important information posted by escort agencies, regular customers and hobbyists as well.

You will also be able to understand how previous clients have rated potential escorts and escort agencies on community driven review websites. They usually write about their experiences using “coded” escort terminology that discuss the erotic acts the escorts performed and other such items including costs, the escort’s behavior and personality, and their overall satisfaction with the encounter.

Misc

• $: The dollar sign is sometimes used for fees. Usually $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on. Often .5 signifies $50, so $$.5 would mean $250.
• 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously.
• 411: Information, intel. e.g. “I got the 411 on her from jessejames69.”
• 420: Marijuana.

A’s

• Agency: An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
• Amazon: A tall, strong, often masculine woman.
• AMP: Asian Massage Parlor.
• Artificial Insemination: The act of attempting pregnancy by manually inserting sperm into a woman’s vagina.
• Around The World: Anilingus and Fellatio.
• Asian: Anilingus, erotic stimulation achieved by contact between mouth and anus.
• Asian Cowgirl: Woman rides on top during intercourse, squatting over the man on her feet, not on her knees.
• ATM: Ass to mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of her ass, and goes directly into her mouth.
• Attempts: Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. She allowed multiple attempts: means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested.
• ATF: All Time Favorite.
• Aunt Flo: Menstruation also; Period.

B’s

• B&S: Bait & switch: Internet, newspaper, or phone advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the woman who shows up, or she has been grossly misrepresented.
• Babyback: Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
• Baby Dyke: A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
• Bag: Condom, with a condom e.g. “BJ in a bag”= CBJ, “I filled the bag”= Orgasm.
• Bait And Switch: Bait & switch: Internet, newspaper, or phone advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the woman who shows up, or she has been grossly misrepresented.
• Baja Sur: Genitals. From the spanish “the low south”.
• Balloons: Breast implants.
• Bareback: Without a condom.
• BBBJ: Bareback Blow Job, oral stimulation of the penis without a condom.
• BBBJTC: Bareback Blow Job To Completion, oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow)
• BBW: Big Beautiful Woman, euphemism for overweight.
• BCD: Behind Closed Doors
• BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of the lifestyle.
• Beard: A “beard” is a person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could “pass” as straight, either for work or for their families.
• Beret: A condom.
• BF: Boyfriend.
• BFE: Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by providers to describe good clients.
• Birdwatching: BBBJTC and she swallows.
• Bisexual: A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
• Blackhole: Anus.
• BLS: Ball licking and sucking.
• Blue Pill: Viagra.
• Blue Steel: Viagra.
• Boston Marriage: In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home. Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as “Boston Marriages.”
• Brown Shower: Defecation on your partner.
• BS: Body slide. Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil.
• Bulldagger: This is a term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often Africian American.
• Bulldyke: A very masculine lesbian.
• Butch: A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.
• Butter Face: A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not.

C’s

• Call Girl: Outcall provider, usually implies agency.
• Cash And Dash: A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide, might offer to “dance”, and leaves.
• CBJ: CBJ, Covered Blow Job, fellatio with a condom.
• CC: 1. Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes used for fees. (Roman Numeral converter) 2. Credit Card
• CC Rider: A provider who is FS for $200/hr or less.
• CD: Cross-dresser: transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
• CFS: Covered Full Service
• CG: 1. Cowgirl 2. Call Girl
• CIM: Cum in mouth.
• Civil Union: A Civil Union grants gay and lesbian couples the same rights and responsibilities as marriage.
• Civilian: A woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship.
• Clockwatcher: A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe a provider who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
• Collar And Cuffs Match: Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes)
• Commercial Company: Prostitution.
• Completion: Orgasm. e.g. She gave a bareback blowjob to completion.
• Cover: A condom.
• Covered: Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used.)
• Cowgirl: Woman rides on top, knees astride.
• Crime Scene Action: Sexual activity during her period.
• Crone: The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman. In the 1970s, during the feminist movement, lesbians began to adopt the word crone to mean a wise older woman. Today, in lesbian and feminist circles, a crone is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
• Cross-Dresser: A person who sometimes wears the clothing and aesthetics of a gender other than the one they typically wear in their daily lives.
• Cruising: Looking for prostitutes while driving.
• Cups Of Coffee: Orgasms (e.g. multiple cups of coffee means she allows more than one orgasm)

D’s

• Dance And Dash: A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide, might offer to “dance”, and leaves.
• Date: 1. A session with a prostitute. 2. A man who patronizes prostitutes.
• Date Rape: Date rape or acquaintance rape is a form of sexual assault that happens specifically on a date or by someone that the victim knows or is acquainted with somehow.
• Date Rape Drug: Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the “Forget Pill,” “Trip-and-Fall,” and “Mind-Erasers.” In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don’t realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence.
• DATO: Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus.
• DATY: Dining at the Y, Cunnilingus, oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris.
• DDE: Doesn’t do extras.
• DDG: Drop Dead Gorgeous.
• Deep Throat: Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed.”
• Defender: A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.
• Delta Omega Gamma: DOG.Deposit: A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by providers as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
• DFK: Deep French Kissing, kissing with tongue.
• Diesel Dyke: A Diesel Dyke is a very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive.
• Doggie Style: Intercourse position where woman is on her hands and knees, man enters from behind.
• Donation: Payment to a provider.
• Doubles: A threesome with two providers.
• DP: 1. Double Penetration 2. Digital penetration.
• Drag King: A drag king is a woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.
• DT: Deep throat: fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
• Dyke: Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.

E’s

• Ed Zachary Disease: A woman with an unattractive face.
• Ellie: LE, Law Enforcement.
• EOM: End of Message – Used in a subject line to indicate no further content in body of message.
• Enhancements: Breast implants.
• Envelope: Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall).
• Escort: A woman who is paid for her companionship.
• Escort Network: A directory of Escorts, Escort Services, and Escort Agencies who are located in all major cities throughout the world. Visit EscortNetwork.biz for more info.
• Escort Terminology: A dictionary of escort language, vocabulary, and acronyms used by the escort industry.

F’s

• Face Painting: Man ejaculates on woman’s face.
• Facial: Man ejaculates on woman’s face.
• FBSM: Full Body Sensual Massage; not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
• Femme: A feminine lesbian.
• Five-O: A police officer (uniformed or undercover).
• FJ: Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
• Flake, Flaky: Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
• FOTC: Fuck of the century.
• French: Oral sex, on either party.
• FS: Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion.
• Full Meal Deal: Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion.

G’s

• Gayborhood: A gayborhood is a gay-friendly neighborhood or an area of town where gays and lesbians are known to live.
• Gaydar: The ability to determine who is and isn’t gay is called gaydar.
• Gender Expression: Gender Expression is the physical manifestation of one’s gender identity, usually expressed through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
• Gender Identity: Gender Identity is a person’s internal sense of being a man or woman or boy or girl. For transgender people, their gender identity will not match the sex they were born with.
• Gender Identity Disorder: Gender Identity Disorder is a term used by physicians and psychologists to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
• Gender Variance: Gender variance is behavior that is different from traditionally defined “masculine” in males and “feminine” in females.
• Genderqueer: A genderqueer is someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
• Get Comfortable: Get naked. For security reasons, a provider may ask a client to “get comfortable” or “make yourself comfortable” before a session, this means to get fully undressed.
• GFE: Girl Friend Experience, A subjective term, but usually used as praise for a very passionate, sensual, non-mechanical experience. Most consider deep french kissing a baseline requirement for GFE.
• Girl Crush: A Girl Crush is when two women have strong feelings for one another, but not in a sexual way. A Girl Crush is strong infatuation that one woman has for another woman who seems beautiful, sophisticated, charming or accomplished. It usually refers to heterosexual women.
• Glove: Condom.
• Gold Star Lesbian: A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.
• Golden Shower: Urinating on your partner, urine play.
• Greek: Anal Sex.
• GS: Golden Shower, urinating on your partner, urine play.

H’s

• Half And Half: BJ followed by FS.
• Hand Job: Stimulation of the penis using hand and fingers.
• Hardwood floors: Clean-shaven pubic area.
• Herb Friendly: Is amenable to marijuana use.
• Hasbian: A hasbian is a woman who used to identify as a lesbian and date women, but is now dating men.
• Hidden Charges: A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.)
• Hindu Massage (Argentina): The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion.
• HJ: Hand Job, stimulation of the penis using hand and fingers.
• HM: High mileage.
• HME: Honeymoon experience. A subjective term used as praise for a very intense, very “real” session, usually DFK is a baseline requirement for HME.
• HR: Hand Release, stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers.
• Hobby, The: The patronizing of prostitutes.
• Hobbyist: A man who patronizes prostitutes.
• Homophobia: Fear or dislike of gay, lesbian and bisexual people.
• Hooker: Prostitute.
• Hostess Club: A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.
• HWP: Height and Weight Proportional (i.e. “normal” build)

I’s

• Incall: You go to her place (Could be hotel, motel, studio apt, her residence, or a mini-storage unit)
• Independent, Indie: An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
• Interpreter: Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ)
• Intersex: A person born with ambiguous genitalia or genitalia of both sexes. Used to be called Hermaphrodite.
• IPO: Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review.
• ISO: In search of
• Italian: Similar to Russian, but penis between partners butt cheeks.

J’s

• Jack Shack: Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
• Jimmy Hat: A condom.
• John: A man who patronizes prostitutes.

L’s

• Looks/Attitude/Service (L/A/S): A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
• Labrys: A Labrys is a double-sided axe that the Amazons were said to use as their main weapon. Lesbians have adopted the labrys as symbol of power and independence. Many lesbians wear necklaces or earrings with a labrys symbol as a way to identify themselves to other lesbians.
• Landing Strip: Description of pubic hair.
• LE: Law Enforcement.
• Lesbian: A woman who is sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
• LFK: Light french kissing. (no heavy tongue)
• LGBT: Used as an abbreviation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans.
• Lipstick Lesbian: A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side.
• Little Blue Helper: Viagra.
• Little Blue Pill: Viagra.
• LMP: Licensed Massage Practitioner.
• Lone Star Lesbian: A Lone Star Lesbian is someone who has only had sex with one person in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars too.
• Lot Lizard: A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio).

M’s

• Madame: Proprietress of an agency.
• Mall, Escort Mall: A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
• Man In A Boat, Little Man In A Boat: Clitoris.
• Mediterranean: Anal sex e.g. “She took me on a trip to the mediterranean.”
• Merkin: Pubic hair wig.
• MG: Massage Girl.
• Mileage: A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accomodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.
• MILF: Mom I’d like to fuck.
• Mish: Missionary position, Man on top during intercourse.
• Missionary: Man on top during intercourse.
• MMF, MFM, MFF: Threesome designations. e.g. MMF = male, male, female MFF = male, female, female.
• Mohawk: Description of pubic hair.
• MP: Massage Parlor.
• MPA: Massage Parlor Attendant.
• MSOG: Multiple shots on goal: she allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session.
• Multiple Pops: She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)

N’s

• Newbie: A novice hobbyist or novice provider.
• No-Show: Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn.
• No-Touch: No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club)
• Nooner: A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
• NQBC: Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.
• NQBS: Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
• NQNS: Non-quitter, non-spitter. BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate.

O’s

• O, Os: Orgasm, orgasms.
• Off-The-Clock: Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock”)
• Operation Flea Collar: 2 year LE investigation of TBD board, culminating in June 2002 bust of Charles Kelly and Steve Lipson, owners and operators of TBD board.
• Out, Outed: Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum.
• Out Of The Closet: Being open about one’s sexual orientation.
• Outcall: She comes to your place.
• OWO: Oral Without, fellatio without a condom.

P’s

• Party Hat: Condom.
• Pearl Necklace: Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest.
• Pillow Queen: A Pillow Queen is someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex. She likes to be pleasured and not reciprocate.
• Pink Boxing: A slang term for anal or vaginal fisting.
• Pimp: A man who solicits clients for a prostitute.
• Pooner: A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.
• Pops, Multiple: She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
• POS: Pussy on the Side.
• Power Dyke: A Power Dyke is a lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large. She could be the head of a non-profit agency, a politician or successful in business.
• Professional Or Businessmen Only: A subjective request used in provider advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The provider posts this in hopes of attracting “better” clientele.
• Provider: Prostitute.
• PS: Private Show. (Dance only)
• PSE: Porn Star Experience, A subjective term, used as praise for a provider that might have a high energy level, a particularly hot look, or is very accomodating (“nastiness” factor).
• PV: Private viewing: Dancing, modeling, perhaps a HJ; not usually FS.

Q’s

• Queer: Once considered a derogatory word, some people use this term to be all inclusive of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

R’s

• Raincoat: Condom.
• REQ: Request: Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.
• REV: Review: Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of a provider.
• Review: A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service.
• Reverse Cowgirl: Woman rides on top, facing away.
• Reverse massage: The client massages the provider.
• Reverse Oral: The client performs oral sex on the provider.
• Rimming, Rimjob: Anilingus, erotic stimulation achieved by contact between mouth and anus.
• Russian: Penis between her breasts.

S’s

• Safe: Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
• San Juan Capistrano: BBBJTC and she swallows.
• Sandbag, Sandbagger: A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
• Sans: Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ.
• Scat: Defecation on your partner or feces play.
• Screening: A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. e.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist’s real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
• Self-Post: A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
• Self-Service: Masturbation. e.g. “It was a self-service jack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
• Sensual Massage: Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
• Session: Paid time spent with a provider.
• Sex Worker: Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
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• Sexual Orientation: Who you are attracted to. Can be gay, straight, lesbian or bisexual.
• SFH: Sex for hire.
• SG: Street girl.
• Shemale: Transexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.
• Shill: A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider.
• Shots On Goal: Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. She allowed multiple shots on goal: means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested.
• Sixty Nine, 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously.
• Slam, Slammed: An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider.
• SO: Significant other.
• SOG: Shots on goal, attempts at orgasm.
• Soixante Neuf: 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously.
• SOMF: Sat on my face.
• South Of The Border: Genital region.
• Southern France: Fellatio without a condom.
• SP: Service Provider, prostitute.
• Spanish (Australian): Penis between her breasts, Russian.
• Spanish (USA): Penis, finger or toy comes out of her ass, and goes directly into her mouth.
• Spinner: A very petite provider. Etymology: From the 1970′s toy, “Sit ‘n’ Spin.”
• Squirting, Squirter: Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates.
• SRS: Sexual reassignment surgery.
• STD: Sexually transmitted disease.
• Sting: A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
• Stone Butch Lesbian: A stone butch is a lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.
• Street Action: Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
• Stroll: A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
• Stud: A dominant lesbian, usually butch, often African American.
• Summer Teeth: Her teeth, some are there, some are not.
• Sunshine, Sunny: Without a condom. (i.e. No raincoat)
• SW: 1. Street walker. 2. Sex Worker.
• Sybian: A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle.

T’s

• Take Care Of Business: Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first.”
• Teabag, Teabagging: Man squats and dips his testicles into partners mouth.
• TG: Transgender: Catch-all term for TV, TS, Shemales, and CDs.
• Throne Job: Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
• Tipping Required: Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services.
• Took One For The Team, TOFTT: A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake.
• Toss The Salad: Anilingus.
• Trans: An inclusive term, encompassing transgender, transsexual and other gender variant people.
• Transgender: A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are “supposed” to be. Transgender can be an umbrella term for cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersex people and other gender-variant individuals.
• Transsexual: A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
• Translation, Translator: Condom i.e. “She spoke fluent french without a translator” = BBBJ.
• Trick: 1. A sex act for money 2. A man who patronizes prostitutes.
• Trolling: 1. The act of driving around looking for a prostitute 2. Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others.
• TS: Transsexual: a person with a psychological urge to belong to the opposite sex that may be carried to the point of undergoing surgery to modify the sex organs to mimic the opposite sex.
• Tuft: Description of pubic hair.
• TUMA: Tongue up my ass.
• Turn Tricks: Prostitution.
• TV: Transvestite: person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.

U’s

• Umbrella: Condom.
• Uncovered: Without a condom.

V’s

• VFM: Value For Money.

W’s

• WAH: 1. From Wahei: peaceful, harmonious and calm (Japanese) 2. Wild Ass Humping.
• Water Sports: Urination play.
• Weeklies: Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
• WF: Wild Fuck.
• WG: Working girl. A prostitute.
• White Knight: A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.
• With: With condom. (e.g. French with = CBJ)
• Without: Without condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ)
• Womyn: An alternative spelling of woman or women.
• Working Girl: A prostitute.

Y’s

• YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary = Catch all phrase to remind that tastes differ, reviews are inherently subjective, and that providers have good and bad days, thus experiences vary.
• YMMV Girl: A provider who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews.

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No one hires escort services and expects a boring or dull night. When you do business with escort services you expect the night to be special. Although you are paying your escort for her companionship, keep in mind that it takes effort from all parties involved to make the night as enjoyable as possible. If you are attentive to your companion and show her the respect and courtesy that she deserves, you will both experience an unforgettable evening when using escort services.

There are several ways to go about your search for a top class escort agency. If you are travelling and have any friends who have stayed in the area, recommendations are often a great way to find the best escorts. Ask your friends about their experiences with escorts and see if they can direct you to a high class escort agency. If none of your friends have used escorts in the area, ask the concierge at your hotel if he or she can recommend a VIP escort service. A concierge is sure to have the most up to date knowledge about all of the things the city has to offer, including reputable escort agencies.

Escort Agencies Are Usually Available For You 24-7

If a concierge is not available, the next best place to begin your search for an escort agency is the internet. While searching for escort agencies in your area, make sure that you only browse the most up to date information. High class escort agencies will always make an effort to keep their information fresh, allowing their clients the best selection of breathtaking women available. If the pictures and profiles you find are old move on to the next listing; do not waste your valuable time with subpar escort agencies.

Once you have found a VIP escort agency that has an up to date and professional looking website, go ahead and make the call. Generally there will be very few details discussed over the phone; however this call will give you the opportunity to see how the escort agency will treat you. A high class escort agency will always treat you with respect and courtesy. If the escort agency makes you feel uncomfortable or does not seem capable of meeting your needs, do not feel badly about ending the call and moving on to another escort service. If you do find an escort agency that is both respectful and able to fulfill your requirements, make an appointment to meet with them.

Escort Agencies Can Save You Time And Money

Once you get to the escort agency you will need to be prepared to come to an agreement. Negotiations are allowed, however it is important that you bargain within reason. If you propose a cheap offer you may offend the escort agency and the women who work for it. A high class escort agency should allow you to choose who you want to conduct business with, so once you reach this point you should have your pick of a variety of breathtaking women.

Working with independent escorts is very different than working with a VIP escort agency. Each option comes with a list of pros and cons, and it is up to you to decide which route will best fulfill your needs. Regardless of whether you choose to work with an independent companion or an escort agency, you are sure to have an unforgettable and exciting time.

The first and most obvious thing to consider when thinking about using an escort agency or independent escort is price. When it comes to independent escorts, these women will be able to negotiate their own fees and tell you exactly what they will provide. Although you will not necessarily get a better deal by bargaining with an independent escort, you will receive better service in that you will be speaking directly with the woman you will be conducting business with. This means that none of your wants or needs will be lost in translation and that both parties will be completely aware of what is going to take place when using an escort agency or independent escort.

Understanding How An Escort Agency Operates Is Important

When you negotiate with an escort agency, the agency will oftentimes retain eighty percent of what you pay, leaving only twenty percent for the escort herself. While this may not mean that you pay more upfront, it does mean that the escort will put more sales pressure on you once the “date” commences. If she can up-sell you during the actual engagement, she will be able to keep a greater amount of money for herself and the escort agency still makes gets its fees.

When it comes to cost, the best thing to do, regardless of if you use an independent escort or an escort agency, is to negotiate an all-inclusive fee. This will enable you to control how much you spend and will often also allow the escort herself to keep a larger amount of the money when you are working with an escort agency.

Factors To Consider When Choosing An Escort Agency Or Independent Escort

While price is an important factor, it is not the only variable that will determine whether you use an independent escort or an escort agency. You need to be comfortable with your escort and whatever service you decide to use needs to take care of you and your needs. A high class escort agency often does business with prominent, distinguished, and even powerful men, and have ultimately learned the art of discretion from working with such elite clients. Certain independent escorts are also able to provide discretion; however it is not as easy to get a guarantee as when working with an escort agency.

Regardless of if you choose to use an escort agency or an independent escort, your encounter with your escort should leave you feeling exhilarated, relaxed, and content. You should make sure that whatever escort or escort agency you decide to hire fulfills your needs and you should never feel as though you have wasted your money. Take the time to weigh the differences between an independent escort and an escort agency, then choose the one that will best take care of your needs and desires.

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Today’s escort services tend to be far unique from your clichéd prostitutes. These women are professional, smart, classy, as well as graceful. These particular escorts from escort services have learned to maintain themselves with confidence and are also relaxed in a number of circumstances, from small events to graceful business affairs. Present-day escort services provide a lot more than just sex for hire, they furnish companionship. The degree of your association with an escort is actually up to you along with the arrangement you have agreed upon with the escort services.

Understanding Escort Services Etiquette Goes A Long Way

If you would like to try to make your encounter memorable by choosing escort services, you need to first of all be sure that all monetary responsibilities are settled upon before the encounter commences. That will help reduce the quantity of stress sensed by both you and your escort during the “date” and often will help to make it easier for the two of you get comfortable and enjoy the encounter. When you are secure and assured in your understanding of what will you receive from the escort services and how much you’ll pay out, it will be easy to help keep cash off of your mind while having a fantastic, stress-free encounter with escort services that you will always remember.

When you decide to use escort services, talk with the girl and familiarize yourself with her likes and dislikes. Many escort services are going to only enable you to do this for an added charge; even so it is more than worth it because it lets you prepare an evening which both you and your escort should benefit from. By taking your escort out and treating her to a night complete with her desired items you will be able to make the evening amazing not merely for yourself, but for your escort as well. Remember that half of the euphoria is the anticipation, so don’t just venture straight to a hotel just after meeting your escort hired through escort services. Experience getting acquainted with her and allow the tension to build in order to increase the excitement. In case you are mindful to all your escort’s desires it is possible to create a working connection with an escort service that would be conducive to the euphoria you will both be yearning for.

Using Escort Services Provides For A Guaranteed Good Time

Nobody employs escort services and wants a tedious or unappealing evening. If you do business with escort services you assume the night to be fantastic. Although you’re paying an escort through escort services for your experience, understand that it will take effort from all parties involved to make the night as entertaining as possible. If you’re conscious of your escort and show her the respect and courtesy that she ought to get, you can both experience a wonderful night when using escort services.

Escort agencies, like most other businesses, serve a wide variety of purposes intended for diverse customers. Quite a few people may well turn to escort agencies when they are vacationing and are also a little bit lonesome and searching for some companionship. Other times, escort agencies could very well be used because someone is in need of a “date,” a professional that can furnish a high degree of elegance for a sociable or business situation. The escorts these days, by way of high class escort agencies, will be the modern day courtesans of our time.

Escort Agencies Can Make The Whole Process Simple

Based on what your needs are, there are a wide variety of escort agencies accessible to you anywhere you may be vacationing. The crucial idea to take into account is that you must at all times attempt to work directly with escort agencies as they’re very likely to know the regulations of the area that you are in and will have the ability to help an individual through the course of action to ensure you continue to be on the appropriate side of the law. Not surprisingly, there’s almost nothing more uncomfortable than recounting some of the recent reports which have reached the press where popular individuals have found themselves in a less than savory position after hiring escorts through escort agencies. Whenever you use escort agencies, they should be in a position to let you know exactly how their service functions, precisely what is anticipated and what exactly is correct conduct once your “date” shows up for the evening; making certain there isn’t any misunderstanding over exactly what can or cannot be done.

Lastly, any time you happen to be searching for escort agencies designed to suit your preferences, begin your research on the internet. In various cities, prostitution or street walking happens to be extremely illegal, even though a brothel or escort agencies are not. As a result, you never want to negotiate with a woman in the street and inquire if she is for hire because you might discover yourself chatting directly to and propositioning a cop; that will land a person in jail. Always be on the safe side by using the services of escorts through a reputable escort agency.

Advice With Finding Escort Agencies Through The Internet

Search on the internet for dependable escort agencies and communicate with them directly to discover and fully grasp their terms of service in advance of entering into an arrangement. Moreover, ensure you always bargain and recognize just how much as well as payment choices before you consent to service.

One more vital point is that the escort agencies which you find on the web must have an up-to-date web site along with current profile info and photographs. By no means should there be a scenario in which you imagine you are signing up for the service of one escort you view on a webpage, merely to have a different escort show up. The escort agencies you employ ought to be equipped to guarantee the level of quality of their business in order to ensure your gratification.

When you choose to employ a gfe escort, you have to know that you customarily have two options. Either you can employ an independent gfe escort, a woman that works for herself and does not have a business scheduling her appointments for her, or you can book with an escort service, which is sometimes the most secure and most lawful choice available to you. Either way can be a legitimate method of hiring a gfe escort.

Use A Reputable Escort Agency When Hiring A GFE Escort

In case you have determined to employ a gfe escort through an escort agency do your groundwork and ensure that you are working with a reputable, trusted, and upstanding company. Any solid escort agency will ask several questions, such as “Where would you prefer your appointment to meet you?” and “What are your preferences in appearance of the gfe escort you’re selecting for the night?” In addition, they should also question you just how long of an engagement you wish to book with a gfe escort and what you expect to have in terms of your date. This part of the business transaction is critical and you should know when you hire a gfe escort that you should not be shy about making your wishes and your requests obvious. Don’t be afraid to speak up and point out just what you anticipate along with understanding exactly how payment is set up and just how much the services cost. By doing this you will prevent troubles later on in the evening with a gfe escort.

The escort agency should also ask if you have any special demands that include outfits which your gfe escort may be dressed in, or anything else that your creativity may suggest.

It’s Important To Understand How To How To Pay A GFE Escort

Last but not least, whenever you and your gfe escort meet up, be well prepared to display payment. While she may well not collect any money until later on in the evening, there must be a guarantee that you are able to, in fact, pay for exactly what you have purchased. Don’t be hurt should the gfe escort request for you to place the cash in a safe and easy to access place which can be collected when they choose to depart or when the appointment is finished and also try not to be confused if they do not wish to allow payment once they arrive. Acting too pushy concerning this may possibly send up a red flag and high class escort may reject to conduct business with you under the assumption that you’re behaving like an undercover cop. Try to remember; although prostitution is lawful in some locations, there exists a very skinny line that you stroll in this area. Follow the lead of the gfe escort and you’re most likely to comply with the laws and do things properly. They don’t wish to get in trouble and nor do you.

If you adhere to these principles and realize what you should assume when using the services of a gfe escort, you will be very likely to have an awesome occasion and great experience.

Just as with any “date” it truly is essential to always practice safe sex with independent escorts. After all, you don’t desire one evening of excitement in exchange for a lifetime full of regret or humiliation. Practically all independent escorts will always insist upon protection, whenever they do not that’s your very first warning flag. Be sure that you are always prepared with protection and only use independent escorts who mutually insists on using protection as well.

Be Mindful When Contacting Independent Escorts

Next, another idea on how to remain secure when using independent escorts would be to only utilize a highly respected website or escort directory. If at any period when negotiating your offer you feel uncomfortable or uneasy because of stipulations of the agreement independent escorts are insisting on, don’t do business with them. As a consequence of the strict laws that independent escorts have to adhere to, you only want to use independent escorts who are prepared to perform just that. Should they be insisting on terms and conditions that you are feeling would leave you exposed or susceptible to a criminal offense, always say no. A fun night with independent escorts is simply not worth time in jail.

An additional valuable suggestion when working with independent escorts is to only do business with one that’s equipped to provide you up-to-date photos and profiles of themselves. Insist upon seeing a picture or learning if the woman you will end up employing for an evening is actually the person in the photos she claims to be in. By doing this, you will reduce any misunderstandings or buyer’s remorse once the independent escort arrives.

Independent Escorts Will Not Ask For Money Up Front

Finally, always bear in mind to never shell out for independent escorts up front. Some might insist on it, but trustworthy independent escorts should wait for payment until the engagement is finished. This is only sensible and any independent escorts that ask to get the payment upfront could in fact be a cop working undercover. Usually, independent escorts want to see a guarantee for payment and have that payment set in a hassle-free spot to reach for when the services are complete. They should understand that requiring payment upfront is a warning of trouble with the law and you shouldn’t attempt to get independent escorts to take it mainly because they will be out the door faster than you can compliment them on their appearance.

It is always significant to keep secure when choosing independent escorts and it’s in your own best interests to follow these important guidelines. Don’t forget, it doesn’t matter just how much enjoyment you’re having on holiday, no one wishes to find themselves in jail or with additional difficulties simply because they decided to use independent escorts for an evening of enjoyment.

There is no denying that rules pertaining to using an escort service vary widely from city to city; what’s lawful in one place is not always suitable someplace else. Consequently the first guideline of business that has to be reached when you are looking at contacting an escort service or even an independent escort is usually to fully recognize exactly what the legalities of your actions are. If there exists a no streetwalking law in effect making it criminal for you to talk with or hire an escort for services while in public, yet it is perfectly acceptable to make contact with an escort service directly to set up the arrangement then that is definitely what you need to do.

Be Selective When Choosing An Escort Service

To begin with, it’s ordinarily quite easy to get in contact with an escort service. However, you should make sure you only conduct business with a respectable escort service. That may indicate not setting your sites on the initial ad you hear about or the initial escort service web page that you find. Be selective in who you use and do your research. A little bit of due diligence and time spent on this end will ensure that you keep on the appropriate side of the law when choosing an escort service and enjoy a satisfying occasion on the back end.

Second, when you find the escort service you want to use, call them and ask all of the questions you might have. Be specific in your requests; however, don’t let yourself be put off if it feels that the representative from the escort service is communicating in code words. Sometimes this happens so that the escort service minimizes the amount of legal responsibility that they’re held to in the event that something against the law does indeed take place. Although an escort service could possibly be legitimate, there’s still a very thin line that is walked in this circumstance. They most probably will not speak about any “sex for hire” service and relate to it more as friendship or social services. You would be prudent to stick to their lead and refer to it in the exact same manner that the escort service does.

Payment Etiquette When Using An Escort Service

Finally, when the escort does arrive to your hotel from an escort service, you should not force cash upon her. Instead clearly show her your guaranteed payment and place it in a safe place that she may get to whenever your date has ended. Only an undercover cop insists upon payment before services are delivered and only an undercover policeman will insist payment from you previous to services being provided. Keep that in mind and if something appears to be off, say that you changed your mind and show her out of your room immediately. Better to be safe than sorry when using an escort from an escort service.

Adhering to these strategies will allow you to stay on the proper side of the law when using an escort service and out of jail.

Should you follow certain specific actions, you’ll be in a position to have a satisfying as well as low-stress experience with an independent escort. Doing this, you’ll want to recognize exactly how the independent escort industry operates and understand how to play by their rules.

Avoid Embarrassment When Hiring An Independent Escort

First, get started by simply looking over websites for an independent escort in the area you will be going to. It is really often most beneficial to work locally because an independent escort who is native to the area is also going to be familiar with the local laws and regulations. Any time you get in touch with an escort agency or an independent escort, find out the nature of their business. If you are getting in touch with a woman directly determine if she’s an “independent escort” so to speak, or if she works for an escort service or agency. This one thing could save a lot of time and frustration any time you are paying for the service. Undue pressure and embarrassment with an independent escort usually comes around with the payment processing stage, if you ask the appropriate questions upfront you’ll save yourself a headache and confusion later.

One more word of advice to comply with whenever employing a companion free of discomfort is always to recognize the main difference between using an independent escort and an escort agency. Normally, an independent escort could have far more freedom to negotiate with you the cost regarding her services. You should never think that you receive a much better deal by dealing with an independent escort directly, but you might get superior service. Quite a few instances when utilizing an escort service, it is the house that collects the vast majority of the payment and they expect their escorts to negotiate with their customers directly regarding additional services, which means you shell out two times. Once you learn this ahead of time you may be in a position to use independent escorts without embarrassment.

Always Communicate Clearly With An Independent Escort

If possible, look for an independent escort or an escort agency that enables you to converse with the woman on the telephone prior to contracting her services. Recognize that a lot of agencies won’t allow you to do this and if they do, there might be a catch. When you work with an independent escort that works for herself, she will likely be able to tell you about what she offers and exactly how she can provide it, and there will be no misunderstandings about what is actually going to take place.

Finally, do yourself a favor and whenever you will be planning to retain the services of an independent escort without being embarrassed always bear in mind your manners. Despite the fact that a companion is looking to earn an income, they are also human beings. Should you deal with them with respect and be a gentleman along the way you will be much more likely to have a fulfilling encounter and get your money’s worth. Keep in mind, when hiring an independent escort without discomfort normally the uncomfortable behavior begins directly with you!